The Preschool Teacher Suggested OT. Should I Be Worried?
Written and reviewed by Rachel Yashouafar, MA, OTR/L. Last reviewed August 11, 2026.
Pickup on a Tuesday, and the teacher says she wants to chat for a second. The teacher suggested OT, or something close to it: she has noticed a few things, the school offers an occupational therapy screening, and would you be open to that. You say yes because you are standing in a hallway with your keys in your hand, and then you drive home wondering what exactly she has been seeing that you have not.
Here is the short version. A preschool teacher suggesting occupational therapy is not an accusation and not a diagnosis. It usually means she is watching your child do something harder than his classmates do it, twenty times a day, with a sample size of thirty children the same age. That is genuinely useful information, and it is worth listening to.
Why would a preschool teacher suggest OT?
Because she has a comparison group and you do not. You have one child at that age, in your house, with your routines. She has a room full of them doing the same task at the same moment, and patterns stand out fast in that setting.
The things that typically prompt it are ordinary classroom moments: struggling with scissors or a crayon when peers have moved on, avoiding the art table entirely, trouble sitting for circle time, bumping into things, difficulty with a jacket zipper or a lunch container, meltdowns at transitions, or getting overwhelmed in a loud room.
None of those are character problems. They are motor and regulation questions, which is exactly what occupational therapy looks at.
Is she saying something is wrong with my child?
Almost certainly not. Teachers are usually careful and often understate things, and by the time one raises it out loud she has typically been noticing it for a while and weighing whether to say anything.
It is worth naming the feeling, because most parents have it: the flash of defensiveness, the sense of being told you missed something. You did not miss anything. You have been watching your own child develop with no baseline to compare against, which is the normal condition of parenting.
Should I be worried?
Worry is not the right word: concern enough to look is. Plenty of children flagged in preschool turn out to be within the typical range and simply on the later end of it. Others have a real skill gap that responds well to support. Both outcomes are common, and you cannot tell which one you have from the hallway conversation.
What is genuinely unhelpful is deciding to wait a year to see if it resolves, purely because the alternative feels like an admission. Looking costs you very little. Waiting costs the school year.
What should I ask the teacher?
Go back and ask for specifics, because “some fine motor concerns” is not actionable. Ask what she sees, in what situations, and how often. Ask what your child does when a task gets hard, whether he asks for help, avoids it, or melts down. Ask when it started and whether it is changing.
Ask whether it happens more at particular times of day, since a child who falls apart only after lunch is telling you something different than one who struggles all day. And ask what she has already tried, because teachers usually have.
What’s the difference between the school screening and a private evaluation?
The difference is scope: a school screening asks a narrow question, does this affect the child’s access to education enough to warrant school-based services. That is an educational standard, not a clinical one, and a child can be visibly struggling and still not meet it.
A private evaluation asks a broader question: what is going on developmentally, and what would help. It is usually more comprehensive, it looks at home life as well as school, and it is not gated by an eligibility threshold.
You can do both, and doing the school screening first costs nothing. If it comes back as not eligible and you still see something, that is not a verdict.
What’s a reasonable next step?
A reasonable next step is to say yes to the school screening, then go back to the teacher for specifics and write them down. If what you hear matches what you have quietly noticed at home, get a proper look.
Our in-home occupational therapy serving Westlake Village and the Conejo Valley starts with an evaluation that includes the home side of the picture, which a classroom screening cannot see.
A teacher who says something is doing you a favor, even when it does not feel like one in the moment.
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Rachel Yashouafar is a registered and licensed occupational therapist (MA, OTR/L) and co-founder of Therapy Clubhouse who helps children from birth to 18 develop motor, sensory, and everyday-living skills through play-based, family-included therapy.
This article is for general educational purposes only and is not medical advice or a substitute for an individualized evaluation. Every child is different. If you have concerns about your child’s speech, language, or development, please consult a qualified professional.
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